Epilepsy and your sex life
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Last updated 03 Jun 2010, review date due 03 Jun 2011
Most people with epilepsy have healthy sexual relationships and their epilepsy doesn’t get in the way. However, it’s not unusual to worry that your epilepsy might affect your sex life. We hope this information will help.
Before starting a sexual relationship
Some women worry that they’ll have a seizure when they are having sex. The fact is, you’re no more likely to have a seizure during sex than at any other time.
It’s important that you don’t feel stressed, worried or pressurised into having sex. Stress and worry might make you more likely to have a seizure.
Sexual problems
Many women find that their epilepsy usually has no effect on their sex life. However, all women might have problems with sex from time to time, such as problems getting aroused or having very little interest in sex. Common causes include stress, tiredness, illness and alcohol. If you have epilepsy and experience sexual problems, there could be some other reasons why. Here are some examples.
- Your own feelings about your epilepsy might make you lose interest in sex.
- You may be taking certain anti-epileptic drugs which can cause some women to have less interest in sex.
- Your seizures might affect the way that your body releases sex hormones.
If you have any worries about your sex life, you’re not alone. It’s really worth talking to your doctor. They’ll look for ways to help you.
Upfront - for young people with epilepsy
- What is epilepsy?
- Seizure types
- First aid for seizures
- How do I know if I have epilepsy?
- Girl Talk – for young women with epilepsy
- Lad Chat – for young men with epilepsy
- Why me?
- What are the risks of having epilepsy?
- Anti-epileptic drugs (AEDs)
- Moving from children’s to adults’ health services
- Other treatments for epilepsy
- Meeting other people when you have epilepsy
- Telling other people about your epilepsy
- School, college and university
- Careers
- Driving, cycling and transport
- Sport and leisure
- Going out and clubbing
- Alcohol and drugs
- Travelling abroad
- Shout outs (Real Lives)
- Dear Debbie and Dear Danny
- Upfront about epilepsy young people’s drama workshop and family conference, Saturday 2 October 2010, London
Epilepsy Helpline
- UK freephone 0808 800 5050
- International +44 113 210 8850
- Email: helpline@epilepsy.org.uk
- Txt msg: 07797 805 390 info







